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Do not stand at my grave and weep. I am not there, I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow. I am a diamond glint of snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain. I am the gentle autumn rain. When you awake in the morning hush, I am the swift uplifting rush of quiet birds in circling flight. I am the soft star shine at night. Do not stand by my grave and cry I am not there... I did not die.


This memorial website was created to remember our dearest Keara Lynne Hart who was born in Boulder, Colorado on September 4, 1975 and passed away on April 5, 2006 at the age of 30. You will live forever in our memories and hearts.

 

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It is impossible to express in words what Keara meant to us. She was and will always be our loving Mother, Daughter, Sister, Aunt, Niece, Cousin and above all else, our friend. We lost her way to soon. She leaves behind a piece of herself in all of us that love her and we will carry her with us always.

Keara was a special person with an enormous heart and kind spirit. She met many obstacles in her life, but she was strong and managed to always pull herself up. We are all so proud of what she was able to accomplish and the positive attitude she always seemed to have no matter what. She even began helping others to achieve what she had managed to achieve in her life.

She came into this world with her big beautiful blue eyes, adorable face and mischievous look. As a toddler she spent some time as a cat. She would crawl around on the floor meowing at everyone. Whenever we spoke to her during that time, we received a meow in return. It was so cute! She eventually returned to being a person and started growing so fast that her brother Wayne nicknamed her “Weed”. We all thought she would be the tallest one in the family.

Keara and her little sister Leigh were constant playmates growing up. No matter how many times they moved, they always had each other as friends. They loved to play outside together in their tree playhouse and hide out. They were inseparable. They had totally different personalities, but always got along together. As they got into their teen years, they started gaining their independence but Keara still let Leigh tag along with her even on dates.

Keara was also very close to her big sister Lauren and Lauren’s husband Karl who she has known since she was nine years old. She considered him a big brother. She came to live with them the summer she was 15 and got her first job. She was a bridesmaid in their wedding and even caught the bouquet. The old wive’s tale must be true because she was the next one to get married! Keara also spent time with them in California living with them as she began her recovery.
Keara also loved her big brother Wayne. He went off to college when Keara was only eight, but she always had fond memories of him. She loved to play with his big collection of Hot Wheels cars when he wasn’t looking. He always knew she had been into them because he always found her hair wrapped around the wheels. Even though she didn’t see him as much, she always talked about wanting to be closer to him. I know Keara would be so happy to see the way her big brother is taking care of her now.

We are so grateful for the fact that we got to see Keara come back from her rock bottom of 3 years ago to who she became. It is truly amazing that she was able to accomplish that and all with a loving heart and the smile she always wore. She had just begun her journey of giving back what she had been given in her second chance at life. In the process, she also gave those of us that love her a precious gift which was the gift of her love.

We never had to question Keara’s love for us. She told us in every conversation we had and there were many. Keara loved to talk! I’m sure for most of us, the last words we heard from her and the last words we said to her were “I love you”. We can take great comfort in the fact that those words were never left unsaid.

Keara also knew that she was loved. No matter where life took her, her family was there even when she probably wished we weren’t. We did not let her go through her struggles alone and never gave up on her. Keara made sure we knew how she felt about that. She told many of us several times over the past couple of years how much she appreciated us and, although unnessessary, she apologized for what she felt she had put us through.

We are not yet sure how to get through this life without Keara in it. Without chatting with her on the phone and hearing her voice and seeing her perpetual smile. But we know that even though we can no longer see her or hear her that she is always with us.
We take great comfort from her two precious children Justin and Tori. I know that they are part of Keara. You only have to look at their faces and know their personalities to see Keara in them. And she loved them with everything she had in her. She talked about them all the time and was so proud of them. We know she would want all of us to reach out to them and let them continue to feel her love through us. They are the gifts that Keara has left us.

Donations:

Justin and Victoria Hart

C/O BB&T Bank

2111 S. Main Street

Goldston, NC 27352


 


 


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Mom
 
I have been looking through old pictures and as I do I cry. I look at your beautiful young face, sweet and innocent. I think about that what I wanted for you was to be happy. I still can't wrap my mind around the fact that you are gone and especially that you were murdered. Sometimes I think that this can't be real but then it slams me all over again that it is. I am still learning to live without you and can't say I am doing a very good job. I manage to get through the days but not much more than that. The pain of losing you is still so fresh. There is nobody like you Keara and I miss you with all my heart. I'd give anything to have my little girl back.
Mama
 
Today I got a picture from Aunt Marie. It showed you, me, Leigh, Aunt Myra, Bonnie , Heather, Keely, and Glen in the pool Aunt Marie had in her backyard in NY. We all looked so happy. I miss those times. I miss you! You were such a strong prescence in my life and still are. I wish you were here to continue to make more happy memories. Now all I have is the past with you and I can only hope there will be a future with you also. I love you.
Mama
 
Keara I remember the day that you sat on the deck with me and told me you didn't want to leave to go to Freedom House. I told you that it was your choice but you couldn't continue to live with me and use drugs. I continue to feel so guilty. You did go to Freedom House and got clean and you stayed clean but you met D there and he ended up killing you. Even though people tell me it's not my fault and I tell myself the same thing I still feel so terribly guilty. I just hope with all my heart that you are in a better place and that I will see you again. I love you Keara.
Phaedra
 
I remember that Christmas you and I set our alarm so we could get up early to fix our hair and "get ready"...it was at the age when we HATED pictures being taken of us. I think we even tight-rolled our pajama bottoms! :) I love and miss you so much. Today is better than two days ago, when I had the "ugly cry" all the way to work. Thank you for putting that lady in my path at the gas station. It was good to be reminded of kindness between people, and I KNEW you had something to do with it. Thank you. I love you! May today bring more sweet than bitter to the hearts of all who are missing and loving you. Merry Christmas KeeKee.
Mama
 
It is almost Christmas again. This is the fourth Christmas without you here. That is so hard for me to believe. The memories of you are in my heart and mind every day. I remember many Christmases from the time you were a little girl until the very last Christmas that you were here with us. I love and miss you so much.
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Barb/Nicky's MOM to: Keara Happy St Patrick's Day
 

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Barb/Nicky's MOM to: Keara Thank You
 
Perhaps you lit a candle,or maybe said a little prayer
Sent a beautiful graphic,or simply thought of him,to show you care
Our hearts are filled with love to know you remembered him
It proves he still lives on,and that his light will never dim
When we reunite on that oh so glorious day
Nicky will be waiting to show us all the way
 
 
 
 
Thank you from the bottom of our hearts,you really are very special to us and made a hard day easier


 
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Paula/Cindy's Mom Happy Valentine's Day
 

Family of Lisa Christine Maas Happy Valentines Day...♥
 

Barb/Nicky's MOM to: Keara Happy Valentine's Day
 

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